
Stop Asking “How Was School?” – Try The Better Questions Habit Instead
Your child bursts through the door, backpack sliding off one shoulder, shoes already half-kicked across the hallway. You smile and ask the question almost every parent asks: “How was school today?” “Fine.” “What did you do?” “Stuff.” And just like that, the conversation is over. If this feels painfully familiar, you’re not doing anything wrong. At Museo dei Bambini Lecce, we see versions of this moment every day — parents genuinely wanting to connect, and children struggling to compress an entire day of thoughts, emotions, and experiences into a single answer. The problem isn’t that children don’t want to talk.It’s that we’re often asking questions that are too broad for young minds to answer. From parent–child conversations during hands-on play, science exploration, and quiet moments of reflection, we’ve learned that small shifts in how we ask questions can completely change what children share. That’s why we use what we call The Better Questions Habit: a simple way of asking about a child’s day that opens up reflection, emotional awareness, and genuine connection — without turning the moment into an interrogation. What Is The Better Questions Habit? The Better Questions Habit isn’t about getting more information. It’s about asking questions that

















